Wednesday, April 17, 2013

Writing prompt - with a twist ;)

I thought it'd be fun to do a writing prompt today! :)

Here's the catch, though, since you guys are too good now for this to be a real challenge... (wink) You have to give FOUR responses to the same prompt. One as if you were writing a historical, one as if you were writing a romance, one as if you were writing a YA, and one as if you were writing a suspense/thriller.

Your prompt response can be anywhere from 3 - 5 sentences total. No more, no less. Your challenge is to bring out the essence of the genre in each answer while not copying more than the first line each time. The first line HAS TO REMAIN THE FIRST LINE. You can't mix up the order.

Hehehehe. This will be good :)

Here's your prompt!

The wind had a secret.

And since I'm making you do this, I'll do it first to show you what I mean.

1. The wind had a secret. Ella knew from the way it whistled through the oak branches that it'd seen exactly what had transpired night before last. Under an innocent harvest moon, just two hours after Sara's masquerade ball, it'd watched Bradley ask for her hand and then for a lot more. But the question remained - would the wind keep her secret?

2. The wind had a secret. So did Matthew--and if he didn't tell her the truth soon, she might just take her favorite Miranda Lambert lyrics to heart and throw his luggage in the front yard. Ashley squinted out the window, wishing it would just storm already and get it over with. But the rain never arrived, and neither did Matthew's truck.

3. The wind had a secret. And if the sudden gale didn't stop threatening to blow her dress up, it was going to leave Haley without any secrets left of her own. She wrestled with the fluttering skirt of her favorite sundress, debating on whether her dignity was worth tossing her mocha from Starbucks when there was still a third of it left in the cup. She should have worn jeans, but it was school picture day, and she wasn't about to be caught dead with a replay of last year's embarrassment, framed for all eternity in mom's bedroom.

4. The wind had a secret. And it chilled to the bone. Rachel rubbed both arms as she tried to fully merge her body into the side of the barn wall. A horse nickered, and footsteps sounded from the stall to her left--human footsteps, not of the hooved variety. Another breeze through the open door ruffled her hair, and she bit back a whimper as the footsteps edged closer.

There you go!

Remember - 1 response for each of the 4 genres (historical, romance, YA and suspense/thriller). 3-5 lines total including your starting prompt line. No more, no less, no duplicating besides the prompt line.

GO! :)

Tuesday, April 16, 2013

Career + Family: How Do You Make It Happen?

If you've seen my past posts, you know I'm learning how to balance a family with a career. Every day I learn something new; but most of all, I watch others I respect who are learning too.

I have so much admiration for Sarah, Betsy, Erynn, and my friend Tricia. I know none of us do this writing biz/family biz perfectly, but here's what I'm learning...

1) Take time to disconnect. Every evening after 8:00, the computer goes off, even if there's more to do (unless it's a deadline I absolutely must meet).

My husband and my daughter both deserve my attention, and I come back to work more focused the following day.

2) Focus when it's work time. If I'm not doing marketing via social media, I turn off Twitter, Facebook, and anything else that would distract me from writing. I have only an hour most afternoons during nap time to make it happen, and I can't afford to be on social media (that's what my smart phone is for when my baby's hanging out with me... though I try not to get too sucked in).

3) I ask for help when I need it. If I'm on several deadlines, I've learned to explain this to my family. I might call a babysitter for a morning, or my husband might do the dishes a few extra times that week. He is very supportive like that and often gives me time to write while the baby's still up in the evening.

4) I make time for me. I find weird things therapeutic: a long shower, a walk, my hands in the dish soap... I try to stop for a few moments throughout the day and enjoy using all my senses.

5) I take care of my body. Yes, it's easier to pop in a few handfuls of chips, and there's nothing wrong with that. But it's almost just as easy to pull out a bag of salad and slap some dressing on the top. (Or pop a handful of almonds!)

When I don't eat right, my emotions and my body feel the difference.

Share: What do you do to support your dreams AND your family?

Friday, April 12, 2013

Sticking to It

How do you know when an idea is worth writing an entire story about and actually finishing it?

I think in the first few years of my writing, that was the question I asked the most. I had ideas all over the place and it was pretty much a hobby to start stories, make up characters, and then move on to a new set of each.

My sister deserves part of the credit for my writing today (The funny thing is I'm not sure she knows!) because one day in high school she looked at me when I was talking about writing and said "but you never finish anything."

And maybe she meant to be inspirational (cue cheesy inspirational music here!) and maybe she meant to be an obnoxious little sister (haha, um...the more likely option =D...). But when she said it, I knew she was right. I didn't ever finish anything.

I "finished" (in quotes because I went back a few years and many conferences later and did a major rewrite) my first manuscript within a year of that possibly unintentional challenge she had issued. And suddenly what had seemed impossible (seeing a story through from beginning to end) was something I KNEW I could accomplish.

I don't finish everything I start now. Sometimes inspiration will strike and I'll see a scene, or I'll come up with a character, and I'll open a word document and just jot down whatever ideas exist. Maybe I'll use it later. Maybe I won't. BUT since my sister's words, I have finished everything I've intended to finish.

I think we need to have the freedom to put down ideas that we have. But again, there's that balance, where sometimes you just have to sit down in the chair and finish what you've already started, promising yourself that you'll come back to that distracting new idea later.

How do you sort through ideas and decide which stories you're really passionate about telling?

Wednesday, April 10, 2013

Ode to a writer...


There once was a girl who wanted to write
So she opened up a document and began the fight
Battling doubts and insecurities and fears
She ignored the dripping on the keyboard of her tears.

"I'm not good enough, I'm never gonna make it"
"I'm tired of being  real. I'm just gonna fake it"
Around and around went the onslaught of lies
Attempting to bind her voice in ironclad ties.

'Til she shoved away from the table
Drowning in sorrows, "I'll never be able."
Then a Voice whispered truth from a place deep inside.
"You're forgetting the basics. In me you abide."

The Voice gave her pause, and silenced the rest.
Maybe her writing wasn't to come from her best.
Maybe the ability wasn't in her strength at all
But rather in the One who'd never let her fall.

So she sniffed back her tears
Checked her makeup for smears
Grabbed some chocolate and a Coke
Deleted spam and sent a joke.

Then ready once more, hands posed on the keys,
She offered her heart to the One who sees.
No longer afraid, or anxious, or alone,
She trusted The End to His hands--instead of her own.






Friday, April 5, 2013

Sitting Under Trees

I thought of y'all today while I was in the backyard playing with my toddler.

In talking about writing we talk a lot about things like craft and discipline, both of which are super important. Any kind of advice you can gain about those things will help shape you as a writer and make you better. Writing definitely takes work. But sometimes, I think we need to let go of the work aspect, and just write.

Today I was watching my son, who's two, play in the backyard and he ran to his favorite spot, which is underneath a tree. He sits there and just looks up at the tree branches, with a smile on his face. While I watched him today, I thought about how my own favorite spot when I was little was underneath a tree we had in our yard at my parents' house. I don't know if at two Josh is imagining anything under his tree yet, but I know that by the time I was six and sitting under mine, I was creating whole words and diving deep into the world of make believe.

I think as 'grown-ups', we don't spend enough time sitting under trees and dreaming up stories.

So sometime in the next week, maybe this weekend if you can, that's my challenge for you. Don't try to plan ahead and decide how this writing session will help the writing career you have or want to have one day. Don't force words out that aren't there. Don't make yourself do anything.

Just grab a notebook and a pen, or your computer if you think better that way, sit down and dream up a story. Just write because you love it.

And if you can sit outside and find a tree to sit under, even better.

Wednesday, April 3, 2013

Grandmas, Single Moms or Workaholics?

Have you ever thought about who you're writing to?

Seems like a silly question in some regard, and there could be a bunch of different answers.

And I don't mean "who are you writing for?" Because in some degree, if you're a Christian writer, then you're writing for the Lord.

No, I mean, who are you writing to?

You likely already have some idea, especially if you've made a proposal and have determined your genre and had to list a target audience. For example, if you're writing a contemporary romance, your target audience is probably something like "Women in the age range of 21-55" or something broad. If you're writing YA, it's probably "Teenagers in the age range of 15-18" or "12-15".

That's good to know. Definitely. You need to identify your target audience not just for proposal/marketing sake, but for you as the reader to think of who you are writing to.

But what I'm asking goes a little deeper.

Think about the Bible and it's authors. Paul, for example, wrote a lot of letters in the New Testament. And a lot of those letters were clearly addressed to believers. Followers of Christ. While other instructions or letters or insight was addresses to non-believers or about non-believers.

It makes a big difference when reading the text to know who the letter is written to.

What if you found a love letter from your boyfriend or husband or spouse? Makes a big difference if it wasn't to you or to someone else, right??

Our writing is the same. We have to know our audience, because it makes a difference. So go deeper for a minute. Who do you picture when you imagine someone picking up a book with your name on it from the shelf in Barnes & Noble? Not just a nameless, faceless, vague age bracket. WHO are they?

Is it a single mom at the end of her rapidly fraying rope, who is in desperate need of some hope and spiritual encouragement? Is it a super-successful business woman who needs to kick off the high heels at the end of her busy workday and find some quality, clean entertainment on the page? Is it a teenager who is sullen and bitter about life and is searching for something he/she doesn't even realize? Is it a widowed grandma who fills her suddenly empty days with church work, house work and novels? Is it a college-aged student who is struggling to figure out life and wondering why she's still single and desires to be desired?

Who are you writing to?

I really believe when you can identify this, it will put a new spark of passion into your writing.

Tuesday, April 2, 2013

What do you think?